Transvestia
For the first time I began to learn that there were others like my husband and they had families and lived their two lives quite successfully. This in itself eased my mind; a great deal. I had permitted Betty's dressing up to this point only to keep our marriage on an even keel. Now I noticed myself showing an interest in her. She too noted a number of times that a change in my out- look had affected her in that now that I understood more on the subject, she was erasing some of the guilt in her- self that had built up over the years. "The Transvestite and His Wife" was the most helpful publication in my learning to enjoy Betty. Here were others, single, married all types and they were or are in the process of adjusting to another person.
I decided to pass along to Betty the knowledge I had in the art of dressing and costume coordination, makeup etc. What a surprise I was in for! She was able to agree with me and then add some! All I had to do was smooth over the rough edges and she is now on her way to being a perfect lady.
In the evening when the children are in bed and Betty and I are spending the evening together, I have to smile to myself. This girl dressed neatly in blue, with her smoothly tapered legs drawn up in the seat of a chair is the same person who pitched championship ball last year. When Betty is here for the evening or weekend, she is my girlfriend and I sincerely enjoy her as such. When her brother is here I enjoy him as much also. (I must admit though, it is wonderful to have a choice as to who I prefer to spend the evening with!)
We have attended meetings of other TV's and their wives and they have visited us. We girls really have a good hen session and I look forward to them.
There is one compensation for wives jewelry, hats and handbags are usually interchangable regardless of size so I really have a bonus wardrobe! My husband selects most of my clothes (his taste is better than mine although I hate to admit it).
Another thing, I find most TV's wives are usually well proportioned and well groomed. I know that in my case I'm careful about those extra calories. My incentive is that I can't stand to have my husband have a better figure than I do. Sincerely,
Ann GG Betty
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